{"id":2371,"date":"2025-09-15T08:43:29","date_gmt":"2025-09-15T12:43:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3.12.124.99\/?p=2371"},"modified":"2025-09-15T08:43:29","modified_gmt":"2025-09-15T12:43:29","slug":"the-power-of-saying-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.bsu.edu\/digitalcorps\/2025\/09\/15\/the-power-of-saying-no\/","title":{"rendered":"The Power of Saying No"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We often talk about managing your workload and maintaining a healthy work-life balance. But what happens when you feel like you can\u2019t say no? Whether you\u2019re trying to balance being a student and having a job, your work and hobbies, or your social life, it\u2019s likely that you\u2019re saying yes too much. By learning how to say no to people, you\u2019re not only giving yourself a break, but you\u2019re also developing your personal skills.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">According to the <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC7332800\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">National Library of Medicine<\/a>, as humans, neurologically it\u2019s more pleasing to say yes. It\u2019s a reassuring and comforting word with a positive association embedded in us. Sometimes it feels easier to just say yes to everything, until you have to deal with the consequences later; until it means compromising your resources or boundaries. People who struggle to say no are often lumped into the \u201cpeople pleaser\u201d category, and while sometimes that is true, it could also be a sense of self-preservation. In a professional setting, saying no to things can sometimes make you seem rude or lazy, so it\u2019s important to make sure that when you\u2019re saying no, you\u2019re doing so in a way that aligns with your values and goals.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But before you go around saying no to every opportunity, there\u2019s a right way to go about it. It starts with asking yourself some questions:&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cDoes this align with my professional goals\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cIs this something that could benefit my career later on?\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cDo I have the resources for this right now? Or will I in x amount of time?\u201d\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cIs this specific to me and my skillset? Could I recommend someone else for this task?\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re saying yes to more than two of these, you might want to reconsider saying no. But if you\u2019re saying no, it might be time to start crafting your decline. By saying no in situations that don\u2019t fit with your personal\/professional goals or because you don\u2019t have the time or resources, you shouldn\u2019t feel like a failure, and at first you might. You might have feelings like you\u2019re letting your team down or aren\u2019t pulling enough weight, but eventually you\u2019ll realize that instead of over-committing and underdelivering, you\u2019re likely just giving someone else an opportunity to say yes.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are a few tips to practice when you know you need to say no to a situation or opportunity:&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>Be Clear &amp; Direct<\/em><\/strong><strong>:<\/strong> Short, polite responses (\u201cI can\u2019t commit right now\u201d).\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>The Sandwich Method: <\/em><\/strong>Positive \u2192 No \u2192 Positive.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>I-Statements:<\/em><\/strong> \u201cI don\u2019t have the capacity to take this on.\u201d\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>Practice Scripts:<\/em><\/strong> Write or rehearse go-to phrases.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>Use Your Calendar:<\/em><\/strong> Really look at your available time and be deliberate\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While most of the time it\u2019s appropriate to say \u201cno, thank you\u201d or \u201cnot right now, but maybe in the future,\u201d don\u2019t forget that \u201cno\u201d is also a complete sentence and sometimes necessary to establish healthy boundaries. So, this week, take a look at your schedule. Do you feel overwhelmed with the number of events you have scheduled? What\u2019s one thing you could take off that list that fits your \u201cno\u201d criteria?&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We often talk about managing your workload and maintaining a healthy work-life balance. But what happens when you feel like you can\u2019t say no? Whether you\u2019re trying to balance being a student and having a job, your work and hobbies, or your social life, it\u2019s likely that you\u2019re saying yes too much. 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